Let me start by saying that no one is out of your league. Again, I’ll repeat, no one is out of your league! A lot of men, including myself, have been in a situation where they see a woman that they are extremely attracted to and they lose all ability to articulate anything, much less approach her and talk to her.
Their first thought is that this woman is out of their league. The more they gaze at her beauty, the less adequate they feel. If you feel this way when you see a gorgeous woman, you are only confirming that you will never get her. In reality, you had a chance and blew it.
Tips For Getting Top Tier Women You Once Thought Were Out Of Your League
If you don’t think you have what it takes to get a woman that looks like a model, you probably won’t get one. If you don’t believe in yourself, you will never be able to reach a level of confidence that will snag your dream girl. Many times, a beautiful woman will be more attracted to confidence than she will looks because she is tired of the pretty boys.
If you put a gorgeous woman on a pedestal, you are telling her and yourself that she is better than you. This is not a good way to approach a woman. You should treat her with respect and adoration, but that does not mean that you have to reduce yourself to being beneath her. You must realize that you are her equal and that there is nothing about you that keeps you from being worthy of her.
It is probably your natural reaction to feel somewhat “wowed” by her beauty when you see her. Don’t let it overwhelm you or you will inadvertently place her above you in your mind and you will not approach her with confidence. If you appreciate her beauty without lusting after it or longing for it, you will be better equipped to put your adoration in check and talk to her like a human being.
Don’t just save your confidence and social skills for the beautiful women. Be sure to talk to everyone around you and don’t hold back. The more social you are, the better equipped you will be to start a conversation with a beautiful woman. Think of everyone around you as being on the same level as you and teach yourself to be comfortable in your own skin.
The more comfortable you are when you approach a woman, the more likely she will be to respond to you in a positive way. You will probably notice that this newfound confidence will help you be a more open, charming, and even funny person. The more you let go of your inhibitions, the more positive things that you will unlock about your personality. When gorgeous women see a man who is comfortable in his own skin, she can’t help herself but feel attracted to him.
Now, this all applies even if you’re only in it for sex. Assuming you’re using a hookup website that can connect you with someone quicker, then you shouldn’t have any problems.