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Let me start by saying that no one is out of your league. Again, I’ll repeat, no one is out of your league! A lot of men, including myself, have been in a situation where they see a woman that they are extremely attracted to and they lose all ability to articulate anything, much less approach her and talk to her.

Their first thought is that this woman is out of their league. The more they gaze at her beauty, the less adequate they feel. If you feel this way when you see a gorgeous woman, you are only confirming that you will never get her. In reality, you had a chance and blew it.

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Tips For Getting Top Tier Women You Once Thought Were Out Of Your League

If you don’t think you have what it takes to get a woman that looks like a model, you probably won’t get one. If you don’t believe in yourself, you will never be able to reach a level of confidence that will snag your dream girl. Many times, a beautiful woman will be more attracted to confidence than she will looks because she is tired of the pretty boys.

If you put a gorgeous woman on a pedestal, you are telling her and yourself that she is better than you. This is not a good way to approach a woman. You should treat her with respect and adoration, but that does not mean that you have to reduce yourself to being beneath her. You must realize that you are her equal and that there is nothing about you that keeps you from being worthy of her.

It is probably your natural reaction to feel somewhat “wowed” by her beauty when you see her. Don’t let it overwhelm you or you will inadvertently place her above you in your mind and you will not approach her with confidence. If you appreciate her beauty without lusting after it or longing for it, you will be better equipped to put your adoration in check and talk to her like a human being.

Don’t just save your confidence and social skills for the beautiful women. Be sure to talk to everyone around you and don’t hold back. The more social you are, the better equipped you will be to start a conversation with a beautiful woman. Think of everyone around you as being on the same level as you and teach yourself to be comfortable in your own skin.

The more comfortable you are when you approach a woman, the more likely she will be to respond to you in a positive way. You will probably notice that this newfound confidence will help you be a more open, charming, and even funny person. The more you let go of your inhibitions, the more positive things that you will unlock about your personality. When gorgeous women see a man who is comfortable in his own skin, she can’t help herself but feel attracted to him.

Now, this all applies even if you’re only in it for sex. Assuming you’re using a hookup website that can connect you with someone quicker, then you shouldn’t have any problems.

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Best Places to Meet Sugar Babies

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For all the men out there looking to hook up rapidly, there is no shortage of places that you can search for younger women. Today we’ll talk about where you can take your search offline, versus the online dating hook up site that we recommend. Some people still like to have the human touch and element added to the fold when they go about their dating conquests.

First off, from my experience it is fairly obvious that these sugar babies are found with other sugar babies drinking alcohol. Finding one isn’t that hard, in fact.

Where Do Sugar Babies Hang Out?

Whole Foods or Other Farmers Market

When the health trend started up, and women really started to look at not just older men, but fit older men, it became really easy to find the man who kept himself together at a place that sells fruits and veggies. For this reason, Whole Foods Market as well as the Farmer’s Market works quite well. Plus, the young fit woman can have something in common with them – being healthy. Look for them with yoga pants on and looking for fresh raw juices. It’s pretty easy to strike up a conversation in an environment like this.

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Charity Events

This one isn’t obvious, but I swear it works. When the ladies go, it’s because giving men are there. Philanthropists, if you will. Find some upcoming events, and hang out for awhile. You’d be surprised. Some may be even doing promotional modeling for the event, which is normally a dead giveaway that they are single.

Dog Parks

Where has there ever been an easier spot to strike up a convo than a dog park? Women love dogs and it’s an easy way to strike up a conversation. “Cute puppy, what’s his name?” There you go, there’s your in. Now go out there and make it happen. It’s as simple as that.

Wine Tastings

Places like the South Beach Wine and Food Festival are ripe with talent, but you don’t have to live in Miami to find a wine tasting. Often times your local liquor store or wine store will have these, often times with, like I said above, promotional models. When this happens, pounce on it. You know how easy it is to talk to someone when you are both drinking? This is like going to a bar without the stigma of “going to a bar.” This is one of my favorite places to find younger women, because again, it’s just a wine tasting and their guard is down.

There you have it, a few places you can meet younger women. When you do this, you’ll have more weekend hook ups.

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Personal Benefits Of Having An Orgasm On The Regular

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There are lots of reasons why you should be hooking up with people and having casual sex regularly. Sure, it’s to get off and feel good but there are reasons much deeper than that which you need to become familiar with. I’ll try my best not to get too scientific on you here. Pay close attention to learn why having an orgasm is great for you!

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Main Reasons Why Having An Orgasm Is Great For You

One of the main reasons that I even use sext dating websites is to have more orgasms. Assuming you have had plenty in your lifetime, orgasms are one of the most euphoric and fully satisfying sensations a human being can have. They feel good, but they can also be good for your health and well-being. Just remember. If they feel this good to you, they feel that good to your partner as well. That’s why you should give them as many as possible. Here are the top 5 advantages of having regular orgasms.

You Will Eat Less

Having an orgasm on a regular basis can help keep your body in shape because you eat less. You tend to have less of an appetite when you have frequent orgasms. This is likely caused by the increase of oxytocin and dopamine in the body when it is in a heightened state of arousal. It also lowers your blood pressure and improves digestion. Plus, you get plenty of exercises giving and receiving these orgasms.

Avoid Depression

The production of oxytocin also helps reduce stress and depression. Having someone who assists you in having orgasms is a stress reducer in itself. This is cause for contentment and so is the release. Achieving orgasms on a regular basis keeps your body healthy and your mind content. If you have this release along with a healthy dose of dopamine and oxytocin on a regular basis, you never have any reason to feel down.

Sleep Much Better

Have you ever noticed that you often feel sleepy after sex? It’s not just because you are exhausted from the physical exertion. You are also feeling the presence of oxytocin reducing your cortisol levels. This relaxes your body and this level of relaxation often causes one to feel a bit drowsy. The more affection you feel for your partner, the more satisfying the release. The more satisfying the release, the better sleep you get. If you want to really up the ante, you can line up your date so that morning sex is on the menu! That’s a double whammy in a good way!

Get Along Better With Other People

If you can’t get along with people, then you’re going to have a hard time meeting people and building relationships, just saying! The reduction of stress brought about by regular orgasms will probably help you get along better with others and you will be better in social situations. Lack of sex and sexual release often makes us cranky and we feel a pressure building inside of us. This can make you grumpy and less prepared to deal with others. If this pressure is released on a regular basis, you will be better equipped to deal with whatever the other people in your life throw at you.

Become More Confident and Personally Content

If you are having a regular orgasm and you are experiencing better sleep and reduced stress; it makes sense that you would become a more confident and content person. You will feel relaxed and ready to skate through any problems that may arise. An overall sense of wellbeing, both physical and emotional, is enough to make anyone a happier and more self-assured person.

That’s all I got for you today. Unfortunately, I don’t have any time to share more tips, I’m too busy trying to find someone to help me have an orgasm! 😛

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How To Get a Boner Fast AF (Works Every Time)

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Many guys have no problem getting a boner. Their member goes stiff the moment they see a girl in a skirt. That doesn’t mean that they get a boner every time they want to. Even some of these guys get performance anxiety and fail to get a boner at the most crucial times. If this happens to you, don’t do what a lot of guys do and turn to drugs.

Drugs like Viagra promote steady blood flow to the shaft of the penis giving you a boner that lasts hours, but this may not be the answer. Some have a medical condition or take Viagra because they’re getting older and can no longer function properly, but sadly, many others are taking it when they don’t need it. I’ve got better solutions for you if you need help getting a boner faster than a speeding bullet.

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Tips For Getting A Boner Fast As Hell

Back to the drug talk, the major setback to taking drugs to get a boner is that you can become dependent on them. The more you use drugs to assist in your boner, the less you will be able to get hard without it. Trust me, this dependency is quite common! What happens is that people are essentially using drugs to address a problem that they could fix mentally.

However, they end up hurting themselves physically instead. Do not let this happen to you. There are ways that you can easily check to see whether your problem is physical or psychological. I know it’s tempting to make the move and take something when you’re using a dating app or something of that nature. Before you do anything, read this article, please!

Is Your Problem Mental?

Testing your erection problem to see whether they are physical or mental is quite easy. All you have to do is masturbate. If you are able to get a boner when you masturbate, but not when you are with a girl; your problem is definitely mental. Luckily, there are ways you can overcome this problem with very little effort, a lot of concentration, and confidence.

Lowering Your Stress Levels

Some men think that getting excited is what gives them a boner, but they are only half right. It’s important to be sexually aroused when you achieve an erection, but it is also crucial to remain relaxed. Not being able to get it up can be a scary thing, so you might stress out further worrying about your boner, but you are doing nothing but making it worse.

Stress causes your body and muscles to become tense. When the body is tense, the blood cannot flow freely to the places that it needs to go. Something as simple as remaining calm when you fail to get an erection can turn things around. Then suddenly, moments later you become fully engorged.

Get The F*** Out Your Head!

Knowing the problem is half the battle. As long as you know that your problem is mental, it will become much easier to control it. Practice some breathing techniques and even some meditation to clear your mind and relax your body. The more you do it on your own, the more you will be able to do it when you are in bed with a girl. If you are able to masturbate, you can get a rock-hard erection every time. Just remember to concentrate on your blood flow, your arousal, and the arousal of your partner and you are going to be just fine.

Whether you’re trying to have a half night stand or find a regular booty call, you’ll want to get control of these issues sooner rather than later. Trust me, it makes a huge difference in your level of enjoyment! Now, in the event that you’re planning on sending nude pics to someone, make sure that you do it with a raging boner! LOL

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Awesome Devil’s Threesome Positions To Try Out

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Are you willing to try something edgy and fun in terms of hooking up? My suggestion would be to try a devil’s threesome then! If you are not familiar with the term “Devil’s Threesome,” it’s a term used to describe three-way sex involving two males and a female. It takes men who are comfortable with their masculinity to pull this off. If you have the chance to be involved in one, and you feel you are ready, there are a few positions that will help you make the best of it. Here are 9 of the best positions to try in a devil’s threesome. I get it, some of this stuff is pretty advanced and getting her in bed seems almost effortless if you can pull this stunt off!

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Best Devil’s Threesome Positions To Try Out

Here are some of the best positions to consider if you want to do a devil’s threesome. You’ll need to be open about them. Just trust me and you’ll be fine!

One On Each End (OOEE)

This one is the easiest and probably the most common position in this type of threesome. The girl positions herself on her hands and knees. One guy enters her doggy style while the other one kneels in front of her getting a blowjob.

OOEE (Reverse Cowgirl Edition)

This is another position involving one penis in the girl’s vagina and the other in her mouth. One guy lies down while the girl rides him in the reverse cowgirl position and the other guy stands facing her while she gives him a blowjob.

OOEE (Oral Sex Edition)

This position involves oral sex only. One guy lies down while the girl straddles his face and receives oral sex. The other guy stands to face her and gets a blowjob.

Double Penetration

This is the standard position for each guy to enter a hole. The girl straddles one guy in the cowgirl position while he penetrates her vagina and the other guy straddles his legs and enters the girl from behind.

Double Penetration (Spoon Edition)

This position involves a girl and a guy lying on their sides, facing each other, while he enters her vagina. The other guy gets in a spooning position behind the girl and enters her from behind.

Double Penetration (Reverse Cowgirl Edition)

This is a variation of the double penetration position. It’s the same as the standard DP position except the girl is in reverse cowgirl position being penetrated anally while the other guy enters her vagina.

Double Penetration (Standing Edition)

Be sure to hold on tight for this one. One guy stands while the girl straddles him and he enters her vagina. The other guy stands behind her penetrating her anally.

The Circus Seal

This popular devil’s threesome position involves both guys in a standing position while the girl gets on her knees between them with their penises in each hand and she goes back and forth bobbing on both giving them blowjobs.

Anal 69

This one is a bit difficult and is better for one guy than the other. One guy gets in the 69 position with the girl while the other guy enters her from behind. This is more difficult for the guy on the bottom because he has balls dangling over his forehead.

Okay, I know this topic might not have been a fan favorite of everyone but it’s important to be open about these things. Some people consider this type of sex to be just a basic part of modern casual dating today. Times sure have changed and as they have, so should you!

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Reasons WhatsApp Totally Sucks for Dating Online

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I’ve been using the best dating app on the planet for years now. I’ve tried so many and one fo them that I tried was WhatsApp. The WhatsApp messenger serves more than 1 billion people in 180 countries. I was excited when I first learned about WhatsApp and their Web application. I thought that it would be perfect for online dating. It seemed like a great idea and just what we needed. Sadly, it does not live up to the excitement. Here are the main reasons why WhatsApp sucks for dating.

Why WhatsApp Really Sucks For Dating

There are plenty of reasons why WhatsApp totally blows when it comes to dating and hooking up with people. Here are some of the many reasons why I firmly believe it sucks big time.

It’s not very compatible with the iPhone – If this is supposed to improve messaging functionality for multiple users all over the world, why doesn’t it work flawlessly with the iPhone? WhatsApp works best with Android, so that alienates all the millions of people who use the iPhone. That’s not cool. The company claims that it’s because there are problems with push notifications. If that’s the case, why release it if it’s got issues. Hate to say it but, not impressed, party of one, front and center!

It’s only functional when you use it with the app – WhatsApp does not work independently. You can only use it with your smartphone. The only messages you are able to receive and are forwarded to the browser, are the messages that you receive on your phone. This means that WhatsApp must be constantly running in the background on your phone if you want it to work. I hate doing this because it eats into my battery life which brings me to the following…

It’s hard on your cell phone battery – Because the web service is not able to run independently, you must leave it running in the background on your phone in order to receive messages. That means that it’s constantly draining your battery, even when you are not using it. The last thing you need is another app putting a constant strain on your cell phone forcing you to charge it more often. Who the heck wants to carry around an extra battery on them too. I mean, come on now! You don’t want to be messaging some college girl that you’re hoping to hook up with only to have your phone shit the bed just like that!

You can only use Google Chrome – As if limiting its use to Android users wasn’t enough; WhatsApp is also limited to users of the Google Chrome browser. This is a popular and well-made browser, but not everyone uses it. If you use another browser, you are going to have to make the switch to Chrome if you want to use WhatsApp.

It takes up a lot of data – The only time that it’s advisable to use WhatsApp is when you are connected to a Wi-Fi connection. If you do not connect to Wi-Fi; your data will be used up before you know it. You won’t just be using data when you are actively messaging. You will also be using data while it’s running in the background on your phone.

WhatsApp might be a good web service eventually, but it needs some work. Until the above-mentioned concerns are addressed, it is not as useful as we originally thought. Instead, I’ll continue to stick with the apps and services that continue to help me achieve all these dating goals that I have.

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Standards For Swiping Right on Tinder

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While I’m not a huge fan of Tinder, I know some of you people probably use it. This is why I’m covering this topic today. I can’t leave you all hanging here, so I’m going to fire off some swiping right standards that I suggest you abide by.

Tinder is one of the many among online dating apps today. It’s simple and straightforward and a lot of people are using it. One of the main reasons it’s so popular is because you can connect with local singles for free. All you have to do is download the app, adjust the distance you want to search, and start browsing. You swipe right if you like the way the person looks and/or their bio and you swipe left if you don’t. If you are a girl, you probably appreciate the fact that the guys cannot contact you unless you swipe right.

That means that your success on Tinder depends on making the right decision on exactly when to swipe right. Here are some standards that will help you choose and save you a lot of time trying to figure out which way to swipe.

Assuming that you’re using any dating app, then you better have a solid dating profile. If not, then read this for some help!

Tinder Swiping Standards

My Personal Standards For Swiping on Tinder

Here’s run down of standards that I abide by and that you should as well. These are tips for both men and women.

When To Swipe LEFT

Girl Tip: One of the guy’s pictures is a shirtless selfie – The shirtless selfie became a turn-off a long time ago. If he doesn’t know that, he goes in the “no” pile.

There are multiple people in all the girl’s or guy’s pictures – If you have to take the time to investigate which one is the person your trying to bang, it’s not worth the time to check it out.

The guy/girl has pictures of him with the opposite sex – If a guy/girl is desperate enough to post pictures of him/her with a bunch of people, then you need to pass.

Too many pictures and mentions of partying – One or two fun party pictures are fine, but if that’s what they’re all about and it could be complete bullshit. Really party people don’t brag about it, they just do it.

Their bio explains that they are looking to settle down – Tinder is not the settle down type of app to use. People use this app to hook up. They are probably desperate. Run like the wind before you get trapped.

Girl Tip: His bio explains how successful he is or his academic accomplishments – This might seem like a good thing, but if he’s so successful, why is he looking for women on Tinder?

They send you a one or two-word message – People who send messages with only one or two words don’t really want to talk. They’re just casting their net to cover as many bases as possible.

When To Swipe RIGHT

If they’re hot – If you can’t deny the immediate attraction to any given profile picture, swipe right. That is, unless a shirtless selfie is involved. Be strong ladies. Cheesiness cancels everything out.

If they’re humble – If they’re hot and don’t brag about themselves, probably a good candidate to swipe right and smash.

If funny – If hot, humble, and funny, then you have struck Tinder gold. A good sense of humor is also an extra incentive to be a little less selective when it comes to looks.

These are my basic standards for swiping on Tinder. Keep in mind that the same rules basically apply for all casual sex apps, so apply them as necessary!

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Tips For Meeting Women At A Local Coffee Shop

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Coffee shops are literally the greatest places on earth. Caffeine and women, I mean what else could you possibly ask for? If you live in a city big enough to have coffee shops, you are lucky. Why? Because it’s a place where you can meet women in a relaxed atmosphere where it’s easy to strike up a conversation. Here are some tips that will increase your chances of meeting women the next time you stop for a latte or iced coffee. Actually, before I get started, I want you to know that hanging at coffee shops has helped me hook up for years.

How To Meet Single Women At Coffee Shops In The U.S.

These tips can help just about anyone meet someone at a local coffee shop. I don’t care if you’re an executive, college student, or blue collar worker. My tips work so take them seriously!

Hang Out At The Busy Places (At The Right Times)

You may think that it’s best to go when there are a lot of customers to increase your chances, but it’s actually better to go when it’s slow. The women you see at a coffee shop during peak hours are usually rushing in and out and don’t have time to talk. You are better off going when there are less people and the women are less likely to have the need to rush off somewhere else.

Look Your Best

This is obvious, but it should be said. Want to impress a woman, then look presentable. If you go anywhere with hopes of connecting with women, you should look your best. Put on some nice clothes and sip your coffee with confidence like you are the coolest guy in the room. Show them that you have pride in your appearance and a sense of style.

Introduce Yourself

It’s best to strike up a conversation when a woman sits down at a table, but you can also approach them when they are waiting for their coffee. Be friendly without being too pushy and take no for an answer, if they don’t respond well. If you get them to smile or talk back to you then you can continue to lay on the charm.

Pay For The Coffee

Once you have them talking, you should make the effort to give them a reason to stick around for a while. Ask to buy them a refill or offer to buy a pastry. Keep them around long enough to make an impression, so they will be more likely to remember you and accept any offers for further communication.

Get Phone Numbers

You have made the connection and it’s time to get going. You should have made enough of an impression by now that they should be happy to give you their number. If they aren’t interested, don’t push the issue. There will be others. Ask for her number or give her yours and take it from there.

Extend An Invitation Out

If you are really hitting it off, you could take a chance, bypass getting their digits. Instead, invite them out somewhere. Ask them if they want to go to a local restaurant or park or just walk around town. It’s a nice local date spot to kick things off. It might lead to having dinner and drinks together that night. This is not going to work with every woman. Don’t move this fast unless you are sure that you have hit it off well enough where she can’t refuse.

One thing I purposely didn’t mention was to always be logged into your Snapsex dating app while at the coffee shop. This is super important because it can help you quickly connect with other locals looking to have casual sex. Good luck and just remember, the worst thing that can happen is getting a cup of coffee and doing some work!

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Common Tinder Profile Tips and Mistakes People Make

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Even though I’m not a huge fan of using Tinder, there is some good that can come out of the site in general, like know what to post on your dating profile. One of the most effective online dating platforms for hooking up is the popular app Tinder (or so they want you to think). If you’re going to use this site or any other dating app, then you need to be aware of the common Tinder profile tips as well as the mistakes many people make.

Guys like it because they can scroll through multiple single ladies in their area, swipe right if they like them, and swipe left if they don’t. Girls like it because they don’t have to deal with hearing from guys unless they swipe right on them as well. There is a tremendous potential for success when guys use this app. However, not even close to the amount of success that people have on Snapsext. Problem is, \they continue to make mistakes that cause girls to swipe left. I”m going to help prevent that from occurring by sharing some tips and mistakes that you must be aware of!

Tinder Profile Tips and Mistakes To Always Avoid

I have put together the most common mistakes that turn girls off on Tinder to help you avoid them and enjoy the success that so many other guys are. If you avoid these mistakes, you are sure to accumulate a lot more matches and increase your chances of hooking up.

Posting Super Blurry Pics

You would be surprised if I told you just how many guys post pictures that have horrible quality. I’m not sure why they do it but they do. Whether they don’t know any better or are just plain lazy, they’ve got to stop it. Posting photos that are of bad quality will not get you any matches. If you do get matches, they will be bad, just like that “piece of shit” photo you posted.

Choose photos that are clear with decent lighting without too much clutter in the background. Camera phones take amazing pictures that are pretty decent. Put on some nice clothes, fix your hair, and have a friend take a picture of you with a decent background. There will be a noticeable difference on Tinder and you will see many more matches. Don’t do it in the bathroom either, you’ll look like a total douchebag. That’s casual dating rule 101 if you ask me!

Shirtless Selfies

This is another head scratcher. Mirror selfies did not look good when selfies were first invented and they don’t look good now. Taking a picture of yourself in the mirror makes you look lazy and void of creativity. Taking a picture of yourself in the mirror with your shirt off is just as lame. Girls will be laughing at you. They will not be swiping right. Even if you have a nice body, it makes you come off like a cheesy guy without a brain in your head. You do not want to be that guy. Head to the guy and pose there with your shirt off if you want to instead. You’ll have better luck meeting local women taking that route.

Frowning Sucks

A lot of guys will avoid posting pictures of themselves smiling because they think it looks cheesy. They think that a picture of them frowning looks cool or even a serious photo. Let me tell you something, it most certainly does not. The last thing you want to do is make it look like you’re trying to be cool. Frowning in pics isn’t going to get girls swiping. They’ll be running for the hills instead.

Group Photos

I will never understand why guys think it’s cool to post a picture with them and a bunch of their friends. Pictures like this are fine for your social media wall, but it will do nothing for you on Tinder. It might prompt girls to swipe left. The first problem is that they can’t tell which one is actually you. That’s the most important issue here. How do you expect someone to want to date or hook up with someone they can’t see. Fuck that, ain’t nobody got any time for that! The second problem is that you come off as a person who is not an original or an individual and you need your friends to define you. Your friends are not going to help you get laid on Tinder. I can promise you that for sure.

Look I share a lot of adult dating facts and the fact of the matter is that if you fuck up your Tinder profile or any other dating profile, you’re screwed. Just do as I say and you’ll be fine.

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Texting Girls And How To Do It The Right Way

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I’ve been using a few go to dating sites over the years, one of which is the definition of perfection when it comes to hooking up with girls. The common denominator is that texting is a must on all of them. Now, when it comes to texting girls, there is a right way to do it and there is a wrong way. If you make the effort to send the right texts, you could end up getting laid faster than you realize.

If you make the same common mistakes many men do, you will only turn her off. Texting is an art that you need to learn to perfect. To learn how to send the right texts, you must first learn what not to do. I’m going to cover that aspect of things right now.

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Texting Girls (The Wrong Way and Right Way)

First I’ll cover things that you need to know so that you don’t do them. Then I’ll cover the right way to text horny girls. Who knows, you might end up meeting up with one or two if you play your cards right!

The last thing you want to do is send boring or mundane texts. If you don’t pique her interests right away, she’ll move on to a guy who will. Here are some samples of boring and mundane texts to avoid:

Hey, how are you today? Are you working today or what?
I was just thinking about you and thought I’d drop you a line. What’s up?
I enjoyed meeting you. Would you like to meet somewhere?
You are really fun to talk to. Would you like to get together sometime soon?

Here are some samples of responses you might get from her if you send one of these boring and mundane messages:

Things are a little complicated right now. I don’t really have time to go out.
I enjoyed meeting you as well, but I’m going out with someone this weekend.
I’m not prepared to go out with anyone right now. Sorry about that.

How to tell you’re doing it wrong…

There are tell-tale signs that you have made the wrong moves and a girl will let you know with her responses. If she is not interested, many girls (college girls especially) won’t respond at all. If she does, she responds with very short texts that don’t encourage further messages. They will also take a long time to respond. If she is interested, her responses will come rather quickly. Also, if you are initiating every text exchange, you are probably wasting your time.

How to text girls the right way…

Now that you know the wrong way to text her, let’s look at the right way. Each stage of texting comes with its own set of things to consider. I’ll explain each stage now.

Stage 1: The first stage is getting her attention. The first text you send should show your sense of humor. Make it playful and show your personality.

Stage 2: The second stage requires making a connection. A good way to make the connection is compliments. Show her that you’re a cool guy that she can trust. The more comfortable she is with you, the more likely you are to move on to the next stage.

Stage 3: The third stage is flirting. Show her that you’re not only funny, you’re sexy. Use this stage to tease her or flirt with her. The better she responds, the sexier the follow-up texts should be.

Stage 4: The fourth and final stage is sealing the deal. Keep your sense of humor and maintain flirting. If she continues responding in a positive way; ask her if she wants to meet.

Once you’ve built up your confidence and you think you’re ready then go for it, ask her out or to meet for drinks. Choose a local hotel that has great dining options. You will impress here, trust me. In the event that you do not, then pass on her entirely.