Relationship Red Flags That Make People Call It Quits

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I’ve had a few relationships end in my day. That’s what happens when you’re actively dating and it’s likely bound to happen until you settle down. That’s not in the cards for any of us right now though so let me not focus on that. Here’s few relationship red flags that have caused me and others to call it quits. There are many more red flags but these are the ones that come to mind first.

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Relationship Red Flags

Laziness
No one likes dating or being in a relationship with someone that’s lazy. Most of the time that just means more work for one party. If you’re lazy or someone you’re dating is lazy, I’d suggest that you change you ways immediately unless you want them dating someone else.

Bad in Bed
This is a big red flag. Everyone needs to get laid and if you’re bad in bed then you’re in trouble. I’ve literally left dates in the middle of hooking up with someone because they sucked at it so bad. Don’t let this happen to you. Instead, you’ve got to perfect your bedroom skills if you want to keep getting laid.

Bad Hygiene
Another classic relationship red flag is bad hygiene. There’s only so much that one person can take in terms of body odor, bad health care, and overall bad hygiene. Clean yourself up and get things straightened out if you want to successfully date today.

Distance
Too much distance is a surefire way to slowly kill most relationships. I don’t care if the sex is amazing, no one wants to travel 100+ miles to get laid all the time. I’ve called off a casual sex hookup myself due to the distance being a factor.

No Humor
Life is serious enough. If you’re too serious and don’t have a slight sense of humor then you’re not going to get very far in life. People want to be in relationships with others that make them happy or make them laugh. If you’re the type that doesn’t have a humor, then you’re not going to be getting laid. I promise you that.

Smoking
This one isn’t really a red flag but more so a suggestion. Smoking is terrible for you and it attributes to your bad breath and bad hygiene. If you do smoke, I’d suggest that you do what you can in order to quit.

These are just a few of the basic relationship red flags that I know of and I personally take them pretty seriously. If you want to keep getting laid, then I’d suggest you do the same.

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Kyrie Irving and Kehlani Now Dating?

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I normally don’t write updates on celebs and their dating status but I wanted to share this news with you. It seems to be the latest trend, basketball players dating hot musically talented women. This time, it’s the point guard on the Cleveland Cavaliers, Kyrie Irving and he’s said to be dating sexy singer Kehlani. Is it true?

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Kyrie Irving and Kehlani Officially Together

Yes, it’s true. They are in fact dating each other. According to a post that was made on Kyrie Irving’s Instagram.

No sooner, Kehlani reposted the same update that Kyrie had made public. Like I said, it’s not all that common for this type of public openness to occur and I wanted to share it with you. Even this couple have been very secretive for a long time about their relationship. According to oComplex, they’ve delete posts in order to not put too much out there.

I guess they decided to stop hiding things and wanted to make it officially public.

Now, I’m sure you know who Kyrie Irving is is you’ve watched any Cleveland Cavaliers basketball this year. Kyrie was born in Australia and grew up in West Orange New Jersey. Kyrie is currently playing a powerhouse role with Lebron James and Kevin Love. He’s only 23 years old and paid a killer salary of 16.41 million. A true boss to the fullest.

Kehlani is a 20-year-old sexy R&B singer and songwriter that’s a member of the Atlantic Records artist family. She’s got some sexy tattoos and has even won a Grammy Award. It’s no secret that she’s talented AF! If you’re interested in checking out her work, watch the video below.

At this point, you may be thinking to yourself, “I wish I could hook up with a sexy celebrity.” So, the question you should be asking here is, “Is it possible for you to hookup with a sexy celeb on a dating site?” I have to say that it’s 100% possible to hook up with a sexy celebrity on a dating website. They want to get laid just as much as you do. The only way to find out is to just join one and try to connect with them. It’s all about networking. Just get out there and do it!

Dating Strange Girls And What You Need To Know

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Whether you’re using a dating app or not, if you’re putting yourself out there in the dating field, there’s a good chance that you may run into a weird girl or two. Heck, you may even decide to go on a date with one. If you do, there are a few things that you should be aware of before doing so.

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Things To Know About Strange Girls

Interesting Outfits
It shouldn’t come as a shocker that the strange girl may dress weird. She may show up in combat boots and a dress or perhaps jean overalls. It’s tough to say but you’ll be able to spot the weird girl if she’s weird with her outfit choices.

Strange Ideas
Strange girls will often come up with strange ideas and they are not afraid to share the ideas at the drop of a hat. Perhaps she’ll suggest a picnic at a circus or some insane idea that you just have to go along with. Chances are, it might even be a genius idea. She’s good like that. In the event that it’s not, you play along anyway.

Attention Deficit Disorder
Concentration is difficult for any of us 90% of the time. However, the strange girl has an even tougher time concentrating. Don’t be surprised if she spaces out on a date or completely blacks out for a short period of time. It happens all the time.

Public Scenes
If you’re dating a strange girl, there’s a chance that you’ll be involved in some sort of public scene one once or twice. Yes, heads will turn and hopefully it’s a positive scene. If it’s not, you better watch out because it won’t be forgotten by the surrounding people.

Caffeine Makes Her Crazy
If you think a girl is strange before you even start dating, I’d suggest you not mix caffeine and booze. Caffeine can make the strange girl crazy, so the Redbull and vodka drinks must come to an end.

Seduction Always Interesting
When it comes to putting on seduction game on, she’s not always on point and it can get messy. Don’t worry though, the strange girls will do their best to try and seduce you in order to bang. You have to give her credit regardless. Heck, maybe you should do so by banging her.

She’ll Say Anything
The strange girl will say almost anything at any given point. If you’re on a date with a strange girl, she’s going to say something to either make you laugh or think WTF!

Zero Fucks
Last but not least, the strange girl gives zero fucks about anything. She’s all about living life for her and not for conforming to society. This is a quality I really admire and you should as well.

If you haven’t dated a weird girl up until now, I’d suggest that you get out there and find one.  Click the home page for my experience with online dating at SnapSext.com.

Online Dating Facts You Probably Haven’t Discovered Yet

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If you are just getting started using sex apps or sites in the new year, then there are some online dating facts that you’ve probably yet to have discovered. These facts are pretty important and for the most part, they’re likely to get you laid or even passed on if you don’t know them. Knowing is half the battle.

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Dating Facts You Need To Know

Everyone Uses Dating Apps

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If you think that married women, the girl next door or even your college professor don’t use dating apps or aren’t members of sites, then you are 100% wrong. Fact is, everyone uses dating sites today and it’s no surprise that this is a great thing! The more the merrier!

You Must Commit To Succeed

commitIf you want to get laid, then you need to work at it. Yes, it’s a known fact that in order to succeed you must commit to something. The same goes for online dating. Those that don’t put in the effort are often overlooked and don’t get lucky.

Quantity and Quality Matter

both quality and quantityIf you think meeting one person is enough then you’re wrong. Also, if you think you’re going to meet your favorite bang on the first date then you’re probably wrong here too. You need to work on meeting as many quality people as possible.

Upfront People Get More

be upfrontYup, it’s 100% absolutely true! Individuals that are more upfront about what they want, pretty much get what they want. I never lie when it comes to dating online and I pretty much always get what I want, when I want and how I want!

Profiles Make or Break It

dating profiles matterThose that put more effort into their dating profiles get laid more and it makes their online dating experience that much more enjoyable.

Research Matters

researchIt’s a fact that those who research others on dating networks make more connections and get lucky more than those which have not. Stop wasting time sitting on the couch and start researching.

You Need To Meet In Person

lets meetIt’s a known fact that you need to meet someone in person in order to hook up with them. I personally choose to connect with them on Snapsext first then meet them in person.

You Don’t Need To Lie

stop lyingStop thinking that you need to lie about your dating habits or experiences. The age of online dating is here and there is no need to lie about any of it!

Master The Hookup Game In 2016

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Mastering the hookup game is something that many may think is next to impossible. I’m here to tell you that it’s very achievable, so long as you are focused and ready to work towards winning. Here are a few tips that might help you master the hookup game in 2016.

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Tips For Mastering The Hookup Game This Year

If you want to master the hookup game this new year then you’ve got to do a few things on a daily basis. These things are not difficult. However, they help and will make it possible for you to actually succeed this year. Heck, you may even get laid every single day in the new year. Trust me and keep reading below.

1) Do it daily.
The hookup game is no different than any other strategizing game. If you want to succeed, you’ve got to work at it every single day. This isn’t asking a lot either. In fact, it’s fairly easy to work at it. Just be sure to access the dating site that you’re using daily. Doing so shows the rest of the users that you are active and serious about hooking up.

2) Tweak your profile.
Most people make the mistake of setting up their profile and rarely updating it. This isn’t going to get you laid in this game. Instead, you must continuously update your profile and attempt to reach your profile peak. You’ll know when you do because you’ll begin receiving more messages and connecting with more women than you thought was possible. If you need help setting up your dating profile I can help you if you’d like. Before you ask my for help, read this post on getting started.

3) Find more places.
If you want to master the dating game, you need to have ammo. By ammo, I mean you need to have places to take your dates. I constantly am trying to work on finding new places to take potential sex partners. If you find yourself connecting with someone yet you have no place to take them on a date, you’re pretty much fucked and not in a good way. Being a master at the hookup game means knowing every single local place to go on a date and which are the best.

These three simple tips can help you master the game this year. It’s all about consistency and putting in real effort. Don’t half ass it this year!

Adopting A Pet Wingman (Dog) Might Get You Laid More

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I’m an animal lover and I truly believe that dogs enrich the lives of their owners. It’s no secret that there are many advantages to owning a dog. In fact, adopting a puppy may help you get laid more. I know, it sounds absolutely crazy, but if you’re a single guy and you want to get laid more, it may be time to get yourself a pet wingman i.e. a cute puppy.

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A Pet Wingman Puppy Can Get You Laid…A Lot!

No, I’m not pulling this statement out of my ass. I’m actually writing based on both personal experiences and written facts here so please keep reading. According to an article published, a research team recently surveyed more than 1,200 people and of those individuals that were women, the majority of them said that they were more attracted to someone because they were pet owners. Now, based on my personal experiences of walking an English bulldog puppy on the weekends in a local area, I was able to bang more than a dozen girls just by them stopping to talk about the bulldog. That’s a lot of booty for just having a pet wingman right?

Now, I need to be very clear here  with this. The same does not apply towards having a cat as a pet. In fact, during this specific study, women basically said that a man having a pet cat was more of a turn-off. That said, don’t go out and buy a kitten if you don’t have one. Instead, go find the cutest damn puppy you can find and buy it! Then immediately take it to the local Starbucks or wherever the most local foot traffic is in your area. Sit back and watch the puppy do all the work for you.

What you’ve essentially done is gone out and invested in the best wingman possible. A pet wingman is one that is more than likely never to cockblock and even better if you can’t get laid, you’ve got a puppy that you can at least, hang out with. I should also mention the added bonus of having a puppy and what it means for your dating profile. If you’ve not taken any selfies with your puppy, then you better stop everything and do it right now! According to the study, more than 25 percent of the women found it to be a turn on if a dog was in their online dating profile photo.

Lastly, as a responsible adult, I should mention that I’m not suggesting you get a dog just for this reason alone. Make sure that you can provide a good home and love for a puppy. Yes, you must provide more love than you’ll be cashing in on by getting laid from local girls. A dog isn’t for everyone, so make sure it’s for you.

Jennifer Lawrence Talks ‘Hooking Up’ With Justin Bieber

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I know I don’t typically write about celebs and their desires to hook up with one another. I couldn’t pass up the chance to share this fun fact today though because I absolutely love Jennifer Lawrence! The sexy Hunger Games co-star wasn’t shy the other day when she was asked whether or not she would hook up with The Biebs. On a show with Andy Cohen, Justin Bieber previously played a game called “To Bae or Not to Bae” and according to Cosmopolitan, when he was presented with Jennifer Lawrence’s name he quickly admitted that she was a solid “Bae.” Now the only thing unknown was how Jennifer Lawrence felt about Justin. Well, we know exactly what she said and it’s certain that Jennifer Lawrence definitely would not hook up with Justin Bieber.

She was brutally honest and responded within seconds to the question without batting an eyelash. Turns out that the hot Hunger Games co-star admitted that she would not hook up with Justin Bieber. Actually, it wasn’t just a know, but a “hard no.” I’m not all that surprised given that she can basically get anyone that she wants and it doesn’t make sense that she settle for The Biebs.

I should also mention that she’s definitely not the only one that’s been put on the spot by Andy Cohen on Bravo TV. He loves asking questions like this and I can’t say I blame him really. Now, it’s only right for me to pose the question here, would you ever hook up with Jennifer Lawrence? I know without a doubt that I would definitely hook up with her if given the chance. I’ll probably never get the opportunity to actually make that happen but what I can do is search the Internet far and wide for a girl that looks like her and if I’m able to accomplish that and bang her then I’m good with that!

Online Dating When Home For The Holiday

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If you’re planning on going home for the holidays. There’s something that you need to know about online dating. When you’re home for the holidays, it can be a bit different at times and there’s a few things you’ll want to know. Trust me, you can have one heck of a successful dating experience while you’re home for the holidays but you need to take the right approach. Here are a few things to remember when hooking up at home for the holiday!

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Online Dating While Home During The Holiday Season

A few things that you need to know before you attempt to meet someone during the holidays while home from college. This holiday, you may get lucky and have a blast or you may not get any action at all. I’m going to try to make sure you score, but regardless, you need to check the list out below.

People Back Home Want Sex Too.

You’re horny and want to fuck while at college right? Of course, you do and so don’t most of the other people home from school. They’re looking for sex and want it just as badly as you do. So don’t think you’re the only one. There are plenty out there. You just need to convince someone to have sex with you!

You May See High School Friends Online

Don’t get nervous if you see some old high school friends on the dating website you’re currently using when you get home. It’s nothing to worry about really. You just need to tread lightly and try to hook up with someone that’s not local all the time. If they’re going back to school in a couple weeks then you’ll likely be able to get away with hooking up with them and keeping it on the D.L.

Hooking Up May Be Harder

Hooking up may be harder in your hometown than you think. However, so long as you’re using the best hookup app possible then you’ll, at least, increase your chances of actually getting laid.

Don’t Rule Out or Judge Anyone

If you see someone online that you’ve previously ruled out from hooking up with, I’d suggest you not judge and consider them as potential sex partners. I’ve actually fucked a few girls who were nerds in high school that all of the sudden went to college and turned into girls that know how to fuck like champs.

 

Big Dating Mistakes Not To Make!

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I’m not going to treat you like an idiot here now. But I’m going to be stern and tell you that you’ve got to stop making a few dating mistakes if you want to succeed in this game. As a semi-professional online dater, I speak with a lot of people about their dating worries and woes. I learn to understand their experiences and more. What you might not know is that I’ve struggled myself from time to time too. If you want to succeed then don’t make the following mistakes when it comes to dating!

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Mistakes To Avoid When Dating

Taking Things Too Personal

Yes, adult dating is often referred to as adult personals, but that’s because people are sharing their personal opinions on things and what they want in terms of a dating partner. What they aren’t doing is taking things too close to heart! Everyone isn’t for you and you’re not for everyone. If someone doesn’t want to go someplace on a casual date or doesn’t return your message, don’t get pissed and definitely don’t take it personally. Trust that there is someone out there that will.

Feeling Far To Deserving

If you’re feeling extra deserving, then you’re up shits creek and you are making a big mistake. You are not entitled and you don’t deserve anything when it comes to things. The fact of the matter is that there are LOTS of people that think they deserve things that they don’t and lots that deserve more than they think. Don’t waste your time even thinking in terms of being entitled or deserving. Just work smart and you’ll find someone to bang.

Too Much Fear Of Missing Out

So many people that pass up great dating opportunities because they think that they are insane options out there in the online dating scene. They pass up a lot of potential sex partners that they would bang in a second if they were with them in person. It’s a huge mistake to not go on that date or go for a drink with someone because you’re holding out for the perfect bang or hook up partner.

These are some of the biggest dating mistakes that you might come across when dealing with all the online dating mayhem that exists today.

Dating Is Dead? Hooking Up Is Not!

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Well, I’ve basically dedicated the majority of my free time over the years to online dating and hooking up with hot local women. I’ve done my share of work when it comes to increasing your chances of success at dating online. I’ve also got some facts about it all that you need to know. There’s a good chance that if you’ve not taken my advice and joined a hookup app or site, then you’ll be doing so after you read this!

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Is Dating Really Dead?!?!?

Don’t freak out just yet, please. For starters, there’s something I’ll share with you according to Upworthy, people are blaming “hook-up culture” on a lot of things, one being the demise of romance and finding real love. I’m here to say that this is absolute bullshit and is in no way shape or form true. Yes, there are a ton of options out there for what’s being called hook-up gratification, and I’m a user of one or two because they work like a charm! But to say that dating is dead is absurd!

In fact, dating is stronger than ever today. We’re just all having more fun for a longer period of time before settling down with someone. The bottom line is that people are getting married at an older age today. But that doesn’t mean that they are not dating and connecting with others. They’re simply being more cautious and not tying the knot at as fast of a pace as they have in previous years.

What’s The Problem With This?

You wanna to know what the problem really is with this? Absolutely nothing! We’re all hooking up with more sexual partners and we are getting laid more than ever today! The use of hookup apps is at it’s highest rate yet and the phenomenon of meeting and bangin’ is here to stay. If it works for me it can work for anyone. So, stop freaking out, dating isn’t dead, nor is hooking up. It’s all fine and dandy. Just go out there are get laid for gosh sakes. No one wants to be alone during the holiday season. So at a minimum, I suggest you find yourself a holiday fling and finish the year off with a smile!