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You know, I’ve never actually called myself this until today but I’m going to go ahead and assuming the leading roll as a dating coach and I’m going to share the reasons why I feel I’m actually a dating coach and worthy of the title. No, it’s not because I’m an egotistical douchebag. It’s because I help you get laid on the regular.

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Why I’m A Dating Coach “So To Speak”

Here are a few reasons why most people consider me to be a dating coach in some shape or form.

I Give Dating Advice
The most obvious reason why you can consider me a dating coach is because I give great advice on how to hook up with someone. Great dating advice is hard to come by, especially if you’re trying to get basic casual dating advice that’s actually worth taking. I deliver like none other. For example, I share the most valuable date hookup tips that you’ll ever hear.

I Tell It Like It Is
Most coaches that are great don’t beat around the bush. They tell it like it is and I do the same. I’m not here to make you feel good. I’m not here to hold your hand and tell you everything is going to be okay. Instead, I’m only concerned about helping you find someone to fuck, finish the job, win the game, score a touchdown! You get my point I think.

I Respond To Readers
I hear from readers and when I do I respond to them. 99% of the time I respond to my readers when they contact me with something that they need help with. If someone is reaching out asking for advice on a particular topic and you respond to them well, then you should consider yourself a mentor or a coach of theirs.

I Have Haters
Haters gonna hate and when they do, I get happy! I have haters that email me stating how they don’t believe me or that they disagree with certain things that I say. Quite frankly, I don’t give a flying fuck and that’s what great coaches have. They have people that hate them because they’re good at what they do.

I Get Laid (A Ton)
Last but not least, another reason I should be considered a dating coach is that I practice what I preach and I get laid all the time. I’m not some shitty tenured professor that spends all their time discussing theory that has no idea of how things really work in practice. Instead, I spend time getting laid and perfecting my tactics.

If you still don’t think that I’m a dating coach then you probably shouldn’t be on my site. I guarantee I fucked more girls than you though if you are one of those bullshit haters!

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How To Chat On Cam For The First Time

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I’ll be brutally honest here, yes, the objective is to get a girl on a private one on one chat with you and to get her to want to get naked. That should come as no surprise what so ever. However, if you’re looking to chat on cam for the first time with someone, there are certain precautions that you must take or else you’ll never get them completely naked. It’s not impossible to accomplish but it’s also not the easiest thing in the world to accomplish either. Fear not, I’m here to share some insight for you and that should be enough for you to start enjoying yourself with some girls online.

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Chat On Cam For The First Time, But Know These Tips

I’m only going to share the mere basics of having a first-time chat on cam with a girl you meet online. None of these tips should come as any surprise and if they do, I would quite frankly be a bit worried if I were you. However, instead of worrying about that, just go ahead and read my tips. You can comment or ask questions later.

Find Someone You’re Attracted To
The first tip that I have for you seems like a no-brainer but it’s true. You’ve got to try and find someone you’re attracted to if you want to have a chat on cam with someone. If you’re not attracted to the person that you’re about to have a private chat on video cam with then chances are it’s not going to really go anywhere.

Be Super Nice
This is a shocker, I know, but you’ve got to be nice to someone if you expect them to want to chat on cam with you. If you’re not then you’re going to find yourself alone pulling your dick staring at a shitty pre-recorded video. Now, if you want to convince someone to get online with you and go private, then you’ve got to be nice to them and compliment the heck out of them. There’s nothing more attractive than having someone say that they truly are attracted you and telling you that you’re hot. It just works for some people and if you can do it you’re going to find yourself in a good spot. You may find yourself on an ideal naked snapchat!

Keep It Clean As Possible
I’m not talking about the chat itself. I’m talking about your surroundings when holding your chat on cam with your date. Trust me, if you’re surroundings look messy, then you’re going to be looked towards as being messy yourself. No one wants to chat with someone that’s extra messy. It’s a turn-off. It’s almost as bass a having a profile picture in the bathroom. You just shouldn’t do it!

Use Your Manners
Once you’re done chatting or getting off or whatever it is that you think you can do, I suggest that you use your manners and say thank you. Don’t leave it at that, though. The next move for you is to ask her out on a real date. Don’t do it right then and there. It may seem like too much pressure. Drop the hint here and there and then you’ll be able to send a friendly message at a later time of day.

These basic pointers are key when it comes to having a successful video chat on cam. If you have any questions, feel free to leave a comment or ask me directly. I’ll be glad to help you out!

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Date Hookup Tips To Never Forget

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I may have shed some light on this topic before but it’s super important that you not forget a few date hookup tips that I considered to be incredibly valuable. No, they are not super complex. In fact, you may have heard them at one point or another in your life but they are important enough for me to mention. I’ll be completely honest and say that if you forget these tips, your hookup chances are likely to take a nose dive. Pay close attention and if you don’t then you’re an idiot that might not like pussy. Simple as that.

A Few Date Hookup Tips You Must Comprehend

These tips have helped me successfully get laid every weekend week after week for literally years. I suggest you read this twice.

Use The Search Function
Whether you’re using Snapsext or any other hookup dating website service, you better plan on using the advanced search function to find hot local girls. If you’re spending your time just logging into the site and taking no further action then you’re not doing everything that you can to be successful. Search for girls that have the qualities that you’re looking for in someone. You should be doing it often too!

Follow The Fuck Up!
I don’t care if you were lucky enough to get laid, or if you just had a really nice date that led no further than that. You need to act like a gentleman and follow up with the women that you’ve gone on a date with. Just because you didn’t get laid on the first date doesn’t mean that you can’t score her. Some girls are hard to get and luckily for you, you’re a gentleman and you’re action will be rewarded.

Always Pay
Whether or not the girl you are out with wants to pay, you best break out your wallet and take care of the tab. Paying for things says to a woman that you’re not a jobless loser with no money. In fact, it shows that you’re willing to put forth the money and effort to fuck her. I’ll be honest and say that out of all the dates I’ve ever been on, every single one that has ended with the girl paying has gone completely south. The reason some women want to pay is so they feel like they don’t owe you anything.

Be Prepared For Sex
You always need to be prepared for sex when going on a date with a girl that you met on a casual sex site. Some of these girls may surprise you and they may want to have sex at the most awkward moments. You must be ready to fuck at all times. Heck, I’ve had sex with a girl in the back alley of a coffee shop. I’ve also fucked in a park by a lake. You never know when you’ll need to perform so come ready.

Well, those are some of the most important date hookup tips that I could come up with to share with you. If you have any questions feel free to reach out to me.

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How To Achieve Your Dating Goals

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We’ve all got goals in life. Some of us want to be the president of the United States and then some of us just want to date the hottest girl possible. If you’ve got dating goals that you need help achieving, then I’m your motivational speaker! Think of me as Brad Pitt in Fight Club. I’m going to help you achieve everything that you desire. You’re going to achieve your dating goals whether they be Internet dating or local dating, it doesn’t matter one bit. They are achievable and here’s how…

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Tips To Achieve Your Dating Goals

Here are a few key components when it comes to achieving your dating goals.

Focus Small
Forget about those crazy super successful thoughts. You’re getting ahead of yourself and you will lose focus on the process if you focus too big. Instead, when it comes to successful dating, you want to do your best to try and focus on little things that lead to one giant win. For example, if you’re using an online dating site, don’t focus on getting laid this week. Instead, you should be focusing on starting a chat conversation with someone today. Just one conversation, not ten.

Be Consistent
The people that are most consistent are the most successful. That goes for dating, working out, closing sales and making money. If you’re not consistent then you’re not going to outshine those that are a sure thing. You’ve got to put in the work on a consistent basis if you want to achieve anything. The same goes for dating.

Raise The Stakes
Once you start to become more and more consistent, you’ll want to up the bidding a bit to get further ahead. What this does is it pushes you out of your comfort zone. Remember, no one has ever achieved any level of success just by hanging out in their comfort zone. You need to get out of that zone if you want to be successful and make gains!

Remind Yourself That You Can
I constantly remind myself that I can score smoking hot girls, that I can get them to have sexting conversations with me anytime I want and that I can fuck as many girls as I want any day of the week. We’ve got to constantly remind ourselves that we are capable of doing something. Why? Well, that’s simple. Because it gets us that much closer to achieving our goals. I apply this to so many aspects of my life. I wake up every single morning and tell myself that I’m going to get in shape and that I’m not going to skip the gym. I also tell myself that I’m going to meet someone hot at the gym and that it’s going to be my best workout. I tell myself a lot of things because it helps tremendously.

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How To Pickup Girls At The Gym

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Picking up girls at the gym is a great idea if you want to get laid. The gym is a really good place to pickup girls. In fact, it’s the mecca of meeting and mingling. Singles have sex at the gym all the time and it’s possible for you to get laid very easily if you take the right approach. There’s a formula to all of this. You need to know exactly how to handle it step by step if you want to be a success.

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Steps To Pickup Girls At The Gym

Here’s the step by step approach to picking up girls at the gym.

Step One: Evaluate
The first step in picking up women at the gym is to evaluate the current situation before doing anything. You’ve got to analyze things before making a decision. Be aware of your surroundings and by surroundings, I mean, be aware of the number of smoking hot girls that you’ve surrounded by at the gym. Once you’ve identified how many hot girls are working out at your gym, you then need to figure out how many are single. Assume that a handful of them are and the a small percentage of the rest will probably cheat on their significant others, so you have that going for you.

Step Two: Socialize
The next step is to socialize with some of the girls. One thing you must not do is interrupt a girl during her set. If she’s mid-exercise and you’re trying to talk to her then you’re not scoring points. In fact, it shows that you don’t give a shit for her well being and that you’re just rude. Start by chatting with her and asking if she needs a spot. Just kidding, don’t ask that because you’ll look like an asshole. Instead, just start with a simple hello and say how are you. Talk about something that’s not political or offensive.

Step Three: Taking Action
Once you’ve got a dialogue going with the hot girl sporting sexy yoga pants and a sports bra, it’s time to get closer to her. Ask if she wants to do a couple sets with you or if she wants to finish working out with you. You’ve got to make an effort to connect with her and show that you’re somewhat interested in her.

Step Four: Asking Out
Don’t be afraid to ask her out after your workout. If you’re really into her, ask her if she wants to grab a couple drinks or even a shake after your workout. It doesn’t have to be anything special. You’ve just got to make sure you ask her out that day. Doing so doesn’t make you look like a dirtbag, it makes you look interested in her and some gym chicks love guys that are interested. In fact, I’ve fucked some girls in my gym locker room that wanted to bang. It’s not uncommon to have that happen either.

If you can’t pick up girls at the gym with those steps then I don’t know what to tell you. You’re going to have practice this and really put in the effort to perfect this. Give it a shot. What’s the worst thing that happens? You don’t get laid. The best thing that can happen? You get laid that day! Go for it!

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How To Get Someone To Like You

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Getting someone to really like you is all about being honest and being yourself, especially when it comes to dating online. A lot of guys try to act out of their league when they are in front of women without realizing that women are clever and they can instantly tell when a man is trying too hard to impress. Girls online are borderline experts when it comes to reading people and whether or not they are the real deal.

If you want someone to like you as a fuck buddy or more, there are certain rules you must follow. I’ve laid those rules out below:

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Rules To Follow To Get Someone To Like You

I’ll keep this as short and sweet as possible. That way you can focus on meeting someone to get them to like you instead of reading my post. After all, it’s all about messaging and fucking, not reading tips.

Be Yourself

I can’t stress enough on this. Never fake a personality in front of a woman especially if you want her to like you romantically. Heck, if you want her to want to bang you. You want her to enjoy the real you and not some person you are trying to be. Nobody likes fake people. In fact, it’s gotta be themost annoying thing ever.

Dress The Part

Try to dress to impress. That means dressing clean and smart, just don’t overdo your wardrobe when in front of her. You also need to remain calm and try not act like a weirdo and strike cheap jokes or puns in front of her. Spark conversation on good topics. Think in advance on what you can discuss with her. Just keep her interested. It’s not all that difficult really. Do that and you will soon find her somewhat interested in you.

Increase Your Knowledge Base

So you like a girl and you want her to like you? It’s time to do a little research and familiarize yourself with her. Find out what out her interests might be. If you are able to get into an intellectual discussion with the girl while crushing drinks, she’ll probably want to take you home and bang then and there! Heck, she may even get attached to you quicker than you can imagine.

In order to really impress her, you will need to sit down and polish your discussion skills and really learn her interests in depth. Just don’t go and start learning about makeup and other girl stuff if that’s what she’s interested in. Find a generic topic both of you can discuss that includes something sexy if possible.

Don’t Sound Overly Or Under Confident

Want to scare a girl away? Great, then do just as I mentioned above. Just kidding, don’t do that. You need to instead try your best to remain neutrally confident and play it cool. But at the same time, refrain from looking confident when you are talking about something you are not familiar with. If she thinks you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about then you’re just going to look like an idiot. She’s think you’re stupid and an overconfident individual.

Remeber the key to getting a girl to like you is just be yourself, be polite and keep her interested. If you can’t keep a girl interested or intrigued then you’re not going to have any shot at hooking up with her.

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Burrito Compatability Has Nothing To Do With Dating

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Dating apps can be tricky and if you find one that works for you then I suggest you use it on the regular. For example, I use Snapsext because I love sexting girls in my local town. I never got laid because of my burrito preference! That’s because it’s bullshit.

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Burrit-OH! Dating App Connects Burrito Fans

Snapsext and other casual sex dating apps connect people based on the fact that they want to have sex with someone local. For the most part, it works like a charm and I think it does because it’s so generalized. However, I don’t believe that anyone can find someone to bang based on their burrito preferences.

Apparently, the guys over at the mainstream site, Zoosk think differently. They created Burrit-OH! (screenshot shown below) which is a new mobile dating site that I’m actually recommending that you not waste your time joining. In fact, I can’t think of any other characteristic that I’d be less interested in knowing about someone.

Burritoh Dating App / Site Created by Zoosk

I mean really, who gives a fuck what kind of burrito someone likes to eat. Is it love at first bite? I think not! Thinking about a burrito doesn’t make me want to bang anyone. In fact, it makes me want to sit on the couch, stuff my face, maybe take a couple rips of a bong and pass out.

How sexy can it be thinking about a girl stuffing her face with a huge burrito? What if it’s too spicy? That sounds like a stomach disaster waiting to happen. I also don’t advise that you even order a burrito on a date. That goes for especially if you’re trying to fuck some random chick on a date. Now, if it were based on whether or not someone liked getting sext messages or even naked chatting with someone then that would be a different story. I’ll never bring myself to join a dating site that’s based on a burrito. It’s giving me heartburn thinking about it. I’ll just go to taco bell myself, eat whatever the fuck I want and then call a girl to bang after having my own Mexican meal!

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How To Tell If She Likes You

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It’s not all that easy to tell if a girl likes you or not. They can be tricky to read. Some women do a fantastic job at keeping their feelings hidden. You will not know if she’s wanting to fuck or not. Well, perhaps if you join Fuckbook, but that’s a stretch.

If you like a woman and the two of you are hanging out with each other but you are not sure if she feels the same way about you, don’t worry, you’re not alone. A lot of guys are clueless in this regard because it is pretty hard to know if she likes you. I’m going to teach you how to know if a girl likes you in college.

If you are serious about finding out if she has any interest in you, then it’s time to polish your detection skills. You need to be able to spot signs of interest given off by her. Catching on the subtle signs she gives will be hard, but not impossible. Look at some of the usual things girls do when they seem to like you.

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Tips To Tell If She Likes You

Here are some tips and what you need to do to be successful…

Talk To Her

The first sign of affection comes through judging how she talks to you. If she listens to you very attentively and always enjoys your company, then there is a chance she likes you because she is already enjoying your company.

But this isn’t enough to go and ask her out. She could be genuinely enjoying your company as a friend. And if she takes you as a friend, asking her in this state will only ruin your friendship.

Look For Flirting Signs

If a girl starts casually flirting with you, then there is something going on in her mind. She’s at least somewhat interested in you.

Girls usually casually flirt with guys when their subconscious mind is attached to them. So, if you see that she is flirting with you and doesn’t mind doing it, this is a huge sign that somewhere deep within her, she has feelings for you.

Now, I’m not saying it’s a sign that you will be having sex with her soon, but it’s a start.

Body Language

The most important signs she will put out there for you to notice will be physical. Look at how she looks at you. Her eyes are important and she’s likely going to be using them to her advantage. If she quickly moves her gaze once your eye meets, she is nervous and that can be a sign of affection in women.

It’s not a guarantee but it’s a good sign. If she sits in front of you with her legs crossed and her shoulders and hips are facing you directly, she is trying to attract you. She is waiting for you to start flirting with her and take things to the next level.

Last but not least, if she likes you a lot she will usually be a little nervous in front of you. You should also look for signs in her lips. She may bite her lips when around you. If she does, then it’s assumed to be purely sexual.

Conclusion

These tips should help you determine whether or not a girl likes you. There are plenty of other signs to look out for but those that I’ve mentioned are the more common signs.

If you see a girl giving off any of the signs mentioned then I suggest you take advantage of it and try to take things to the next level. You might get laid.

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Three Main Signs She Wants To Bang You

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Women are very tough to understand but when a woman wants to sleep with you, she will give you a few pretty obvious signs. The important takeaway here is the you are able to recognize the sign and take advantage of them. The only problem is, these signs can also be misleading at times. Some girls play around here and they don’t actually want to bang. In order to determine if a girl really wants to bang you, you’re going to have to pay close attention to a few key things. Hopefully, the pointers below will help you distinguish between innocent and sure signs that she wants the D!

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Signs A Girls Wants To Bang You

Here are the three main things to watch out for when it comes to determining whether or not a woman wants to bang you…

Body Language

Body language is the most powerful and sure way to find out if a woman really wants to sleep with you. The first thing any woman will tell you through her body language is her level of comfort. If she feels comfortable with you touching her in places you generally shouldn’t be touching, then she might be into you.

For example, women typically don’t like you to touch their shoulders, hair, waist, back and neck unless they are somewhat attracted to you. If a girl lets you do this, there’s a good chance you’ll be able to take things a bit further. Now, if she seems nervous even in the slightest bit, then I’d suggest you back off a bit. You don’t want to come off as a fucking creeper here.

Also, if you see a girl licking her lips (in a sexual manner) while she is talking to you, she is giving you a sign that she may be attracted to you. In fact, it may be her way of seducing you and she may want to fuck you.

Just try casually touching her in different places to see her reaction. She will immediately get uncomfortable if she doesn’t like it. If she does get uncomfortable, then do not continue to do so. It’s an obvious sign that she’s not interested.

Laughter

Try throwing a very stupid joke at her and see her reaction. If she bursts out laughing knowing that the joke was stupid in the first place, she is basically trying to tell you she digs you a lot.

Remember that women think that if they smile a lot at men, it attracts them a lot. So it is perhaps her way of trying to attract you so you can start taking things to the next level.

I’ve dated women that laugh at some stupid things that I’ve said. Frankly, I don’t care what they laugh at, so long as it gets me laid. Given that it’s my main objective, I focus on that only for the most part.

Flirtiness

Women do flirt a lot and some of them do it just for fuck sakes. But if a girl you’re with is always talking about sex or telling you about other sexual experiences, she is opening up enough for you to assume that she wants to have sex with you.

That’s especially true if you’ve connected with her using an online sex site. Learn to see what kind of flirting she is doing. If she flirts with you and then laughs and it doesn’t go any further, she’s probably doing it to fuck with you.

But if she constantly flirts non-stop and talks about sex, then it’s a go! My guess would be that she wants to get it on. At that point, I’d trying offering her something, perhaps a night in a hotel room for some good old fashion fucking.

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What To Do After A Breakup

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Breakups are no joke. It can literally destroy your everyday life if you do not know how to move on after a very tough breakup. If you have recently gone through a breakup, I understand how painful it is. But it in no way shape or form should this put a stop to your personal life. Nor should you fret over past memories. Some people find it really hard to move on because they are still carrying the feelings and memories of the past. Here are some tips on exactly what you need to do after a breakup in order to successfully move on with your life.

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Here’s What To Do After A Breakup

If you want to move on and completely forget your past love, here are a few things you need to start doing immediately.

Hitting The Delete Button

Once you know things are over between you and your girlfriend/boyfriend, it’s time to hit the delete button. Delete every single thing you have from them. That includes sext messages, Facebook/Twitter/Instagram profiles, pictures and any songs and videos they might have given you. If you keep these things intact, you will be constantly reminded of them and that will take you to the past. Your objective is to progress, not regress. Get that social shit out of the way!

Go On A Trip

One of the best ways to get your life back after a breakup is to go on a long, nice trip to a destination that you have always wanted to go to. This is a great distraction and sometimes getting out of the same city where you and your partner spent most of the time together can be a refreshing experience. During your trip, you will create many new memories and moments of fun will replace your old existing memories that basically make you feel like shit right now. My advice is to try and meet someone on your trip too.

Start Dating Again

Do not sit down and allow yourself to fret over someone who is no longer a part of your life. Immediately go out and start looking for someone to date. Once you start a new relationship, you will completely forget about your ex. Just make sure you never let the memories of your ex haunt you when you enter a new relationship. In fact, it’s best to try and date someone that’s the exact opposite of your ex.

Change Your Lifestyle

If you want to change things and forget about your breakup, try changing your lifestyle a bit. How about joining a gym or a yoga class? These are great distractions which will keep you away from thinking too much about your past. You will also have an opportunity to meet new people at the gym. Plus exercising releases positive hormones in your body which will make you feel a lot better about yourself in general. In fact, I’ve had sex with some women from my gym in the past. It’s a great place to meet someone to fuck, especially if you like milfs.